- Posted by Leigh Frost
- On March 26, 2018
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Roughly half of all marriages end in divorce, which has been the case for some time. People don’t marry with the intention of getting divorced, but sometimes things don’t work out the way we thought they would. This has resulted in a high percentage of divorced parents. Parents naturally worry “What are the chances of divorce if parents are divorced?”.
Do children of divorced parents get divorced?
Those with children who are contemplating divorce are often tormented by this question, which is perfectly understandable. They may even wish to know the answer to help them in deciding to get a divorce or not. Nobody wants to feel like they are condemning their children to an undesirable fate. The first thing to recognize is that every case is different, and there is no certainty your child will divorce because of your actions. Nevertheless, there are statistics that are suggestive of what happens on average, though deciphering the truth is maybe less simple than was first thought.
Child of divorced parents statistics
Divorce is common these days and no longer carries the stigma that it once held. Many times divorce is preferable to the alternative of two people staying together when it’s not in their best interest. However, this begs the question “do children of divorced parents get divorced?” There are statistics that, at least on the surface, support this belief. You may be familiar with the saying that “correlation is not causation” which means that just because two things are associated does not mean one is directly driving the other. The amount of exposure to conflict is the driving factor for poor relationships later in life, and not divorce. In certain circumstances, divorce can be beneficial because it reduces conflict exposure that would have otherwise happened if the parents stayed together.
No marriage is doomed because of another’s divorce
Keep in mind that the statistics referenced above refer to large groups of people. Nothing says that any particular marriage is doomed to fail because one or both of the party’s parents were divorced. Results also need to be interpreted in the context of other societal changes, such as a reduction of marriages overall in favor of other domestic arrangements, and different attitudes to what constitutes a family.
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